I have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me.
He has been very distant and didn’t come home last weekend. I think my friends know he is cheating but for some reason they won’t tell me. Either they are sparing my feelings from being hurt or they are protecting my boyfriend or the girl he is having an affair with. How do i find out if my suspicions are right and what do if my friends did know he was cheating on me and didn’t tell me?

First off you shouldn’t accuse your friends of knowing when you yourself don’t know 100% if your boyfriend is having an affair. However usually a girls gut instinct is spot on. You need more proof if you suspect  your bf is cheating. Maybe track his vehicle. This way you will know where he is.  Get a hold of his cell phone and view all his incoming and outgoing calls and text messages. Also get a hold of his pay stubs and look to see if he has missed any time off work.

Once you get some proof, try talking to your close friends and see if they are still fluffing you off as if they know something but don’t want to tell you. It could be because it is a mutual friend of yours. Or they may not know anything at all. The main point of focus for you would be to find out if your boyfriend is cheating as not so much if your friends are lying at this point.

Keep in mind you may have reason to believe your boyfriend is cheating on you, but in having just a feeling that he is, isn’t a good enough reason to believe that your boyfriend is in fact cheating on you. Investigate and get proof if your feelings are true or not.